Many friends warned me about traveling to India; yet, there was the occasional acquaintance that raved about how amazing the Indian sub-continent was. My mom and I have had India on our “to visit” list for years, and we finally decided it was time to see what all the warning and rave was all about. Nothing, I mean nothing can prepare one for India. I consider myself a seasoned world traveler, and a global citizen (having lived on six continents in the last ten years), yet I was truly unprepared for my first contact with India. On the surface, India is colorful, vibrant, full of life, and incredibly diverse. Dig slightly deeper and one finds extreme poverty, high rates of morbidity and under/mal-nutrition, exploitation, dilapidated infrastructure, and extreme over-population. India’s government has not instituted a strict family planning policy limiting child births, as its neighbor China imposed decades ago when concerns about over-population arose. In several states, like Uttar Pradesh, the government has launched efforts to reduce fertility rates with impressive results; however, nation-wide India’s fertility rate remains dangerously high. Considering I only spent two weeks in India, my assessment of this vast and diverse country is only cursory and anecdotal at best. I’m not sure if I’ll visit India again, given that I saw more “death” and “dying” than in any other place I have visited or lived (keep in mind that I lived in Nigeria for over two years and only saw a total of two corpses on the roadside). There are certainly amazing historic places to visit in India, which are worthwhile and impressive, but it takes quite a bit of heartache to arrive at these sites. For instance, to visit the Brahma Temple in Pushkar (the only one of its kind in the world), we had to step over dying bodies, cattle dung, streams of raw sewage, and escape the hounding hawkers that do not take no for an answer. This is merely one example of many during our trip through Rajasthan, Goa, and New Delhi.
In spite of the heavy traffic, the incessant harassment of street vendors and hawkers, the crooked guides and drivers who cheat tourists by taking them to carpet factories with inflated prices, the cattle dung littered practically everywhere, the spewing raw sewage, the piles of decaying garbage, the sick, morbid, and dying people on the streets and in villages, and the plethora of stray dogs with mangled limbs, India is home to an amazing history. During my two weeks on the sub-continent, I had an unforgettable “wow” moment. Although this may sound cliché, I must say that when I finally found myself standing directly in front of the Taj Mahal my heart skipped a beat and I actually held my breath for a moment. My mom and I were both rendered speechless by the sheer magnificence of this pearl-white structure. Never have I been so impressed by a physical building. I’ve been fortunate enough to have visited many of the world’s wonders, but never has one left me speechless. Perhaps this was because I had just finished reading a 400+ page historical novel relating the Moghuls’ territorial gains in India, and Emperor Shah Jahan’s undying love for his second wife, who died bearing his 14th child, and his promise to erect a tomb that would resemble “paradise on Earth” for his beloved Mumtaz Mahal. Fully understanding Emperor Shah Jahan’s loss and his dedication to building the most unique and beautiful tomb in the world for his beloved late wife, I was taken aback by the aura of this structure…words do not give justice to the beauty that is the Taj Mahal.

Maca…I’m feeling so proud (like I live there!) that you visited India…FINALLY! Thank you for your post…It brought me back so many memories…especially the moment of awe when you are standing in front of a magical place (Taj Mahal)…
Maca,
You always inspire me to continue to explore and travel the world. I absolutely love the pics from India. It brought back so many memories of my 2005 India trip. Say “hi” to your mom for me.
I am an Indian and love my country but I must say I agree with what you’ve said in your post. You’ve described India from a tourists point of view and I’m afraid it’s correct and consistent.
All you Indians who feel this post is untrue should visit the villages of Bihar, UP and MP.
India has miles to go before it can be called a developed land.
We Indians cannot and should not argue of possessing a rich history as an excuse for having poverty and hunger in our land.
Ironically we’ve got most of our amazing history as a result of all those centuries of foreign invasions!
first of all, those are some fantastic photos.
secondly, i can say that i can relate to every word that you write except the ‘dead bodies everywhere’ bit.
everytime i’ve visited india, i’ve also viewed it from a tourist’s point of view despite being of indian ethnicity myself. i found myself trapped in the disconnect between the India that my parents (in canada) had left behind and told me about … and the India that I experienced. as a result, there have been plenty of times when I’ve reacted very negatively towards the country and have been touted a snob for doing so.
truth of the matter though is, like you correctly pointed out, nothing can ever prepare you for india. it’s not just physically draining but also emotionally draining especially for someone like me who has spent far too many years in the sanitized environs of north america. in india, there is poverty, chaos on the roads, exploitation at every level, filth, dirt, beggars, hawkers, cheaters .. u name it .. and every time i go there, i promise myself that i’d never go back ….. strangely, i find myself booking tickets again every year. part of the reason could be that my husband’s family lives there but mostly, it’s the color, the vibrancy, the life, the diversity that you mention. also, its amazing history despite all the negatives that stick out like sore thumbs. either way, i don’t disagree with your perspective at all. in fact, i find myself nodding along.
@ shreyas:
“I only wish you could spend more time exploring this wonderful country that i am definitely proud to be a part of.”
i am yet to see someone who is not proud of the country that he/she a part of through birth or voluntary naturalization. everyone thinks that their country is the most wonderful in the world.
“I guess the problem lies with us Indians not doing enough to showcase the real india to the world, dont u think???”
you mean the ‘good parts’ of india eh? the real india also comprises the view that tourists see. i’ve seen some parts of real india that tourists don’t see. i’ve seen maids at various middle class indian homes being exploited. i’ve seen them getting beat up by their husbands and later mistreated by their employers and they keep taking it. i’ve seen those workers being exploited. is that real india? or is that part of india real where they are killing off their daughters? or is that india real where daughters are regularly being prostituted for money? or forced into marriage at the age of 12 and made to bear kids with much older men and get beat up by them too? or the india where so many don’t have access to education? or the India where girls can’t go to schools because there are no proper toilet facilities at schools? what India are you talking? What real India? The real india of 5-star hotels? The real india of IT high -rises in hyderabad overshadowing slums on the side? The real india where people are okay with a young child serving them in a restaurant?
what real india?
Are you alluding to the Indian warmth of playing hosts to guests? well, that certainly gets disproved when your guests are cheated by lying hawkers. that also gets disproved when your guests have to live with the fear of getting raped. when some girlfriend of mine asks me if she should travel in India, I tell her strictly not to travel alone. Why should I need to if indians knew how to play good hosts?
I know I am indian by ethnicity and I have no qualms about it. I am glad I am born into a culture with a strong value system to keep me grounded as a human being … but I’d be the last one to get offended if someone to criticize anything wrong with my culture. I host a blog at http://unwantedgirlchild.blogspot.com where I write of female foeticide ….. something that’s prevalent mostly in the culture that i belong to ….and I’ll condemn it for as long as I can.
Macarena, I apologize for hogging your comment space. My take from a long time ago:
http://roopscoop.wordpress.com/2008/04/04/traveling-again/